Friday, April 4, 2014

Milk Maid Memories

We've been milking again for about three weeks now, and even though it's slightly difficult getting back into the swing of doing milking chores twice a day, we really do enjoy it.  Whenever I'm milking the goats, I can't help but think of my grandpa Gene who milked cows for 40 years.  So, it must just be in my blood.  I wrote this essay in college about my time spent with him in the milking parlor.  Grandpa has been gone almost three years, but I can still see him standing there by his cows, and I can still see and hear the sights and sounds from that milking parlor as if it were yesterday.  So many people don't understand the farm, or the work and love that goes into caring for animals everyday for your entire life.  So, here are the memories of milking with my grandpa, and the moments of my childhood that profoundly have affected the way we live our life today:


Milk Maid Memories

                From outside, the milkhouse calls to me with its familiar song—the clanging and loud whirring of a motor, the lowing of the cows as they await their evening chore, and the Reds’ game that blares loudly from inside.  The vivid memory flashes across my brain as clearly as if it happened yesterday; I am suddenly five years old again, and it’s milking time.  Quickly, I jump up the steps and open the door.  I run past the milk tank, wince past the deafening roar of the motor that powers the milking machines, and open the door into the parlor.  The pungent smell of warm milk mixed with weathered cows hits my nose, and I smile at my grandpa.  Sitting between two doors, the metal stepladder waits for me to take my post.  Since my little five-year-old arms are not long enough to reach up to the soft, pink udders, my grandpa lets me push the button that opens the sliding door the cows enter through.  I am so proud that my grandpa gives me such a heavy responsibility, and I focus hard on him and await my cue.


                At Grandpa’s signal, I push the old, crusty button; immediately the door shudders and scrapes open.  A pink nose peeks around the corner, before the rest of her lumbers through the doorway.  I count out three more black and white beauties, and before I can shut the door, another cow tries to slip through.  When I squeal as the door clips her nose, Grandpa assures me she’ll be okay.  The cows stop, evenly spaced, in a straight line, and immediately begin crunching grain.  They wait knowingly, and carefully, my grandpa begins his dance. 

                He slowly shuffles down the line; his heavy rubber boots pound on the cement in short, clipped clomps.  Slivery tufts of hair peek out from underneath his wide-brimmed straw hat, and his big glasses nearly hide the soft, gray eyes that love me.  His yellow apron, spattered with years of toil and manure stains, flaps as he reaches for the milkers.  He does not even think; his cracked and dry hands grip the milkers automatically as he deftly slips them on each of the four teats.  The milkers begin to bob up and down as they suction the milk out with sharp hisses.  Wary of the jumpy cows that have caught his hand with a sharp hoof many times before, he checks the pipes to make sure the milk is flowing properly, then crosses the parlor to finish with the other cows.  He gently lifts an open-mouthed bottle filled with green, bubbly liquid to clean each teat, and then opens the chute to allow the cows to exit the parlor.  He moves down the line, back and forth, in a stiff but beautiful dance with the animals that have been his livelihood for over 60 years.  He signals, and I push the button once again, and four new cows enter, ready to be milked for the night.

               As soon as the milkers slip onto the next round of udders, the milk gushes through a tube toward a large, oval jar.  The milk tumbles in, spurting as it is vacuumed from the cows and pumped to the top of the jar, sloshing and frothing, as it shoots around the inside.  I press my hands and face to the glass to soak up the warmth of the foamy milk.  I run back and forth with glee between each cow’s jar to see which fills up first and which cow has the most milk tonight.  One jar is full of crimson milk, and Grandpa says it’s because the cow is sick, and her milk has to be thrown out.  When the cows finish, the jars quickly drain round and out the bottom; the milk winds through more tubes and pipes—up, down, across, through, until finally the main pipe disappears into another room where I know it will deliver its goods to the giant cooling tank.  It is time for the next group, and Grandpa has to call my name; the waterfalls of milk have distracted me, but I run to the door, startling a cow who then kicks off her milkers, and quickly punch the button.  Four new cows saunter in, and I peek around the open door to see how many are left in the holding pen.

Grandpa Gene
              Grandpa finishes with the final four cows; the Reds have won, and Grandpa shuts the radio off.  The last cow leaves the milkhouse and wanders out into the starry night, sleepily looking for the rest of her herd and a warm place to sleep.  I unscrew the black rims of the milkers to remove the dirty filters inside and throw them away into a cardboard box in the other room.  Grandpa starts to spray down the platform, while I struggle to scrape the muck into a big pile he can scoop out into the lot.  The door opens and my mom walks in.  I’m not ready, but she motion it is time to go.  I quickly hug my grandpa, avoiding the dirty mess on the front of his apron, and promise I’ll be back another night.  My innocent childhood mind assumes he cannot possibly milk his cows without his little partner.

                It has been many years since I stepped into that milkhouse with Grandpa and pushed the button to open the door for his cows.  But every baseball game I hear on the radio sends me back, and I can smell the cows, see the warm milk sloshing through the jars, and hear the clangs and dings of the loud motor which call me to my beloved stool.  Time has separated me from those happy moments, but the poignant memories still come to me as clear as the country summer nights I knew long ago.  

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Why I'm thankful My Fridge Stopped Working!

Last Friday, I opened my fridge and poured the kids some milk.  The milk wasn't extremely cold, but I really didn't think anything about it.  Then I opened my freezer, and everything was soft.  And drippy.  And melty.  OH NO.  Almost nothing can strike fear into my heart like a faulty freezer.  We grow and freeze a lot of our own food, and our two deep freezers are full of produce, meats, and milk, which we freeze for soap.  So, a freezer that is on the fritz means wasted money and a lot of extra work.  Luckily, this was just the freezer above my fridge, so it contained less exciting (and less expensive) items like ice packs, ice, shredded cheese, and a couple unidentified objects I had stuck in a Ziploc bag, left unlabeled (because “I’ll remember what these are”) and thrown in the back of the freezer.  The fridge however was full of milk for feeding baby goats, vegetables, condiments, butter, eggs—things I definitely did not want to throw away. 

BUT, luckily, THANKFULLY, we have an extra fridge in the garage.  We bought it a couple years ago to store extra milk in.  Currently, this fridge was empty.  I had debated turning it off a while ago because we haven’t used it as much in the past few months, but again, thankfully, we had not.  So the kids and I began to transfer all of the salvageable stuff from our kitchen fridge to the garage fridge.  Unfortunately, this fridge was, as I have stated in the garage.  Because it’s a pretty small garage, we have only parked a car in there maybe once, and before we acquired a garden tiller, 4 tricycles, 2 bicycles, a stroller, a meat smoker, and a myriad of other random things that find their way to a garage.  I would show you a picture, except it’s a little embarrassing and a lot like hoarders, but trying to push the door open that connects the laundry room to the garage was slightly difficult.  I did get a little space cleared, but the door still didn't open all the way, which made things uncomfortable when trying to carry three large jars of milk to the kitchen.  So for three days, every time I needed something from the fridge (which seemed like every five minutes), I began the task of pushing open the garage door, trying to avoid stepping on some spare screwdrivers, and carrying whatever I needed back to the kitchen without dropping anything or hurting myself. 

Yesterday, my kind husband had mercy on me or he got tired of my complaining, the latter is more likely, and together we cleared the garage, moved the dead fridge out of the kitchen and moved the cold, working fridge into the kitchen.  Also, for a while we've considered getting an old chest freezer and using it for feed storage at the barn.  So we took the old fridge, turned on its side, and it is now protecting rabbit/dog/goat feed from marauding mice and raccoons.  A win-win!! 


So, no I’m not thankful my fridge stopped working.  I’m thankful the fridge stopped working.  We had a spare one and we needed a broken one!  I am so thankful that even though God doesn’t protect us from all the bad and annoying things that can happen in life, He does watch over us and provides for us in times of need and inconvenience.  I’m so thankful for our spare fridge and the fact that it still works.  I’m so thankful we didn't have to buy a new fridge.  (It took me 2.5 seconds of looking on Sears.com to realize new refrigerators cost more than what we paid for our old mini-van!)  Imagine if my dryer had stopped working, or my deep freezer, or the computer?  I don’t have a spare one of those laying around, but on second thought, it wouldn't surprise me if I found one buried under the junk in the garage!

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

It's not you, it's ME.

I've been noticing something lately.  I read a lot of internet articles, see a lot of the things my female friends are posting on Facebook, hear comments from a lot of women, and I've noticed one thing.
 
Every single one of us feels judged.

We feel judged because we’re married, judged because we’re single, judged because we married young, judged because we married old, judged because we have one kid, judged because we have a lot of kids, judged because we homeschool, judged because we send our kids to public school, judged because we vaccinate, judged because we don’t vaccinate, judged because we breastfed, judged because we formula fed, judged because we’re stay-at-home moms, judged because we go to work.  I mean seriously, I have read an article from some woman pouring her heart out, defending her decision to do every single one of these things.  And I have just one thing to say.

Let’s stop.  Just stop.  Now. 

You see, I don’t think the actual problem is that we’re all judging each other’s decisions.  I think the problem with this "I feel judged by everybody because I live my life soooo differently than everyone else's" feeling, mainly comes from one person:  ourselves.  I think a lot of the problem (and I’m admitting this because it’s MY main problem) with the mommy wars, and women wars in general, is our own insecurity within ourselves.  It’s our own selfish, inward focus.  I personally have this problem.  I will be the first to admit it.  Someone posts an article about their decision to send their kids to public school.  Obviously, this friend on Facebook, whom I have actually spoken to once in real life in the past five years, posted that just for me to read, because she wants to point out how horrible I am for homeschooling my kids.  And then I read the article, and I think, maybe not even out loud, but subconsciously, “Am I really making the right decision to homeschool?  Am I scarring them for life?”  And so I take it as an attack.  Except, this person isn't even attacking me, or anyone else for that matter, she’s merely highlighting what worked for her and why.  But my own insecurities take it as an attack, and so what do I have to do to make myself feel better?  Tear that woman down.  Because my insecurity says, "I cannot be valuable, unless someone else is invaluable.  My decisions are not valid, unless someone else's are invalid."  And this my friends, is absurd.  It is ridiculous, and it is what makes women tear each other down, and hurt each other, and feel the need to defend every. little. thing. we. do.   

And so I’m asking, can we agree to stop?  Not stop tearing each other down, not stop posting articles supporting our decisions, but let’s stop wallowing in the pit of selfishness and self-doubt.  Let’s all say, “I am not going to give in to my insecurity.  I am a child of God.  I am loved just because I am a person.  Nothing I do is going to make me be loved any more or any less.”  Because when I rest in that, in the confidence that no matter what I do—good or bad—no matter what I achieve, no matter what I choose for my family, no matter what anyone else is doing, I am valuable.  And I think when I rest in that, I realize that most people aren't attacking me.  In fact, most people aren't even thinking of me at all.


So today, I’m saying to you: I don’t care if we have totally different parenting or life philosophies.  I don’t care if our choices seem vehemently opposed.  You are loved.  You are valuable.  And as long as your decisions are motivated by your love for your family and yourself, and not a desire to one-up the woman beside you, then that’s all that matters.  I will not take your decisions as an attack on mine, rather I will celebrate the differences that God made in all of us.  And I promise I will not validate my decisions by invalidating yours—not out loud, not on Facebook, not even in my head.  Because I am loved and valuable too…and I have my own issues to worry about, without worrying about yours.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Are you listening?

This past weekend we were lucky enough to sell our soap at the Rushville Steam Engine Show in Rushville, Indiana.  We loved having the opportunity to share our soap, our family, and our goats with the many wonderful people there.  Growing up on a farm, I have always loved farm machinery.  For a while when I was younger, I wanted to be a farm mechanic!  So, seeing all the steam engines (big and small), the antique tractors, and old implements was fascinating to me.  And I couldn't help but miss my Grandpa whom we lost almost two years ago, and who would have loved going to this show.

One of the big steam engines we got to see

While at shows, our main goal is obviously to sell our soap, so we do a lot of sharing with people about our soaps and our farm, and why we do what we do.  But I find that it's so much more fun if I do the listening.  We are blessed to get to travel around and meet so many great people, and sometimes I get so absorbed trying to sell "us" to others, I forget that fact.  If I had been too focused on myself this weekend, I would have missed so many wonderful stories.

I would have missed the woman who, while taking a shift at the booth next to ours, told us that a little over a year ago, she started feeling a little more tired than normal.  When she went to the doctor, she found out she had colon cancer.  She's now in remission, 55 pounds smaller, but still lively and smiling.  You would never have guessed she'd been sick if you didn't know her.  I heard her tell someone else, "I've been walking with a cane, but I decided this weekend, I was going to go without it.  I told myself I'm going to do it."  If that's not motivating, what is?

I would have missed the two brothers, probably in their 50's, who when looking at an antique boot scraper at the booth on the other side of ours, said to me, "You probably have never had dirty boots have you?"  When I informed them that as a matter of fact, we milk dairy goats, and I do have to scrape my muddy boots, they both started cracking up.  I was puzzled.  They then proceeded to tell me that when they were boys, they had to milk 35 dairy cows.  When they were done milking the cows, they had to milk one Nubian goat--"that old brown goat," they called it.  One brother said, "It took us longer to milk that one brown goat than 35 cows.  We had to chase it all around the barn, and that was with it chained to a cement block!  Once we caught it, we had to tie its head up tight to the fence and put a rope around its gut just to milk the stupid thing."  The other brother said, "But you know, looking back, it made Dad popular with the neighbors.  If a neighbor baby had colic or something, Dad would give them the milk to drink.  We worked so hard, and Dad just gave that milk away!" But he said it with a smile.  You knew they were proud of their generous father.  "It taught us to never give up," the first brother said as they walked away, "But neither one of us have ever owned another goat!"

I would have missed the young woman from Chicago who said she wanted some goats.  "But, if I ever live someplace where I can have animals, the first thing I'm going to get is a camel.  And I'm going to ride it.  Wouldn't that be the coolest thing ever?"  Dream on sister!  I hope someday you get your camel.

I would have missed another older woman taking a shift beside us who after hearing how Greg and I met, said it reminded me of her courtship with her husband, whose name I can't remember now.  "He was the older brother of my best friend.  I couldn't stand him because he always called me Porky because I was fat.  He couldn't stand us because he had to drive us around everywhere.  I spent so much time with his family because his sister was my best friend.  I called his aunts and uncles "Aunt so and so" and "Uncle so and so" because we were that close, but I never paid any attention to him.  It just took me a while to realize he was more than just my best friend's big brother."

I would have missed the lady across the aisle who gave me some advice on growing herbs.  "You ought to just try it next year," she said when I told her it's one thing I'd always wanted to do, but had never ventured doing.  "Just get you a little pot that you can keep close to the house, that way it will be easier for you to take care of it."  With her encouragement, I probably will.

I would have missed meeting Bruce and Kay, the owners of a gigantic Russell steam engine and many Model T's.  "We get all the machinery and cars out at Christmas and light them all up.  People come for miles around just to see it."  She knew the people selling across the aisle and would sit with them part of the day.  She enjoyed watching the boys' antics--you know, those little things they do that I find myself getting so irritated with, like their loud voices, their restlessness, their touching-everything-they-see-ness.  Yet to her, they were cute and amusing.  It made me realize how I should be more patient with my children sometimes and find joy in their craziness.  Her husband also offered to give us a ride on the steam engine, but we couldn't quite fit it in our schedule on Sunday.  Hopefully next year, and we might be one of those families coming for miles around to see the lights, Kay.  I really hope we can meet again.

I would have missed the older gentlemen who came to buy his wife a bar of soap.  He had his farm clothes on and walked with two walking sticks.  He wanted help picking out a scent for her.  He didn't think she'd like the oatmeal bar because she didn't like things that were scratchy.  "You know how women are," he said to Greg with a laugh. Then he turned to me.  "But let me tell you something.  Ten years into our marriage, my wife looked at me and said, 'You're not the same man I married.'  I asked her what she wanted to do about it.  Most people nowadays would get a divorce.  But, she told me, 'On the first of the month, I want you to go get a boxed lunch, and we're going to park.  Then I'm going to tell you one thing I don't like about you, and you're going to tell me one thing you don't like about me.'  And we did.  And we spent the whole month working on that one thing.  We did that every month for years.  And let me tell you, she's 80-some years now, and as pretty as you are, I wouldn't trade her for two of you!"  Nothing better than marriage advice from someone who's done it for over fifty years.  I wish I could have met his wife.

You don't have to travel to craft shows to meet interesting people.  How many stories are you missing because you aren't listening?  Because you're too busy with your own worries?  Often times, we get the best advice and encouragement when we aren't even looking, as long as our ears are open and our mouths are shut.  Thank you to the Rushville Pioneer Engineer's Club for a wonderful weekend.  We can't wait until next year, and we won't be coming just to sell our soap.  We'll be ready to listen.

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Parenthood lesson #576: My children really are listening

Gideon is my oldest son.  He is one of the sweetest little boys I know; he's super affectionate, free with compliments ("You're beautiful today Mommy!" is my favorite), funny, smart as a whip, he hears everything and forgets nothing.  However, Gideon is also a perfectionist, high strung, strong-willed, and a little OCD.  He likes things ordered and organized, and when things fail to go the way he's planned, he has trouble adjusting, which usually results in minor and major meltdowns and turns my sweet Gideon into a giant bear.  We've tried many things to discourage this type of behavior, some successful and some not.  One of our solutions is to always compliment Gideon's good behavior.  We always try to praise him for the times when he handles disappointments without tears and fussing.  Often though, when we give him a compliment like "Thank you for being such a good boy today," he responds with "No I wasn't".  Gideon's attitude has been the most frustrating and difficult thing for me to deal with as a parent.  Its root goes straight to his heart, and I know we've got to take hold of it and mold it into a heart that desires to obey before it takes hold of him.  We often talk to Gideon about how his heart is like a garden, and he can let weeds (bad attitude) grow or flowers (good attitude) grow.  But often I wonder if anything I'm saying or doing is making a difference in him.  Is he hearing what I'm saying?  Am I doing anything to effectively reach him?  Will he ever stop throwing a temper tantrum every time I ask him to do something he doesn't want to do?

My sweet Gideon, loving on his baby brother

Then, on Saturday I took the boys by myself to a family get-together.  We stayed most of the afternoon, which means Gideon didn't get a nap in, and even at almost 5 years old, Gideon requires a nap most days or he is even more volatile than normal.  So, I was really dreading the moment when I had to say it was time to go.  I just knew that I would end up trying to get two boys and a baby down the street and into the car while dragging a kicking and screaming Gideon.  Yet, when I said it was time to go, he calmly got his shoes on, said goodbye, and walked out.  He got into the Excursion, buckled his seat belt, and didn't even whimper.  After everyone was loaded, and we were on our way, Gideon suddenly piped up, "Aren't you proud of me?"  I answered with a resounding, "YES!"  Not only was I so proud of him for not throwing a fit, but proud of him for being aware of his good behavior.  I was so proud of him for wanting to obey and please.  I was also almost moved to tears of thankfulness.  Finally! I had proof that we were in fact getting through to him.  Even when it seems that he is completely unmovable and unrelenting, even when I think I am in fact doing more harm than good, there is a part of my guidance that is slowly seeping through to his core.

My stubborn Gideon

So parents, I give you this encouragement:  Even when you think you're not getting through to your kids, you probably are.  Even when you think they're not listening to anything you're saying, they are hearing what you say.  Even when it seems that they will never understand, they will come around.  Parenting is a marathon, not a sprint, so don't give up, even when it seems you're accomplishing nothing.  It is trying, frustrating, and exhausting having children, but I wouldn't trade being Gideon's momma for the world, and I'm so thankful for the little glimpse God gave me of the person Gideon is becoming.  And I realize that as much as I'm trying to refine and mold my children, God is using them to mold me--a fact I take much comfort in during the times when Gideon is screaming at the top of his lungs in the grocery parking lot.  So thank you Father for letting us watch our children learn and grow.  Even when it is harrowing and daunting, it is still a privilege to call them mine.

Sunday, July 14, 2013

A lotion you can feel good about


Have you ever read the label on your store-bought lotion?  Here are some of the ingredients on a bottle I have here at home:  

Water, Dimethicone, Ceteareth-20, Diasolidinyl Urea, Methylparaben, Tetrasodium EDTA, Propylene Glycol
I don't know about you, but I only know what one of those ingredients is, so I did a little research.
Dimethicone is a form of silicone and has a variety of uses.  It is one of the ingredients of silly putty, different types of caulking, and McDonald's chicken nuggets.  It decreases foaming, is used in shampoos to help make hair shiny, and a form of it is used in the treatment of head lice.

Ceteareth-20 is another ingredient that helps to thicken lotions and stabilize emulsions.  But it can also alter your skin structure and increases the speed and ability of other ingredients to penetrate your skin and enter the bloodstream.  It is not recommended for damaged skin and is also restricted in skincare products.

Diazolidinyl Urea is an antimicrobial agent that slowly releases formaldehyde (Yikes!) in order to preserve lotions. It is found in almost all types of skincare products.

Methylparaben is a member of the paraben family and is another preservative.  Parabens do occur naturally, in the body and in certain plants, like blueberries, which is why they are generally considered safe in small amounts.  But because several types of parabens are often used in one product and parabens are used in virtually all skincare products, it is easy for our bodies to absorb way more than a normal amount. Parabens have been found in breast cancer tumors and have also been found to mimic estrogen and disrupt hormone function.

Tetrasodium EDTA is yet another preservative that breaks down the skin's protective barrier in order to enhance absorption.  

Propylene Glycol helps lower the melting point of water, so it is used in de-icing agents and antifreezes.  It is used in lotions and other skincare products as a humectant, which means it helps to attract and retain moisture to the skin.  It is also sometimes used as a preservative in foods and as a solvent in pharmaceuticals.

Water is, well, we all know what water is.  But, when water is added to a lotion, it automatically creates the need for a preservative, because water creates an environment perfect for bacteria growth.  It also is very drying.  If you've ever washed dishes several times a day in the winter and ended up with severely chapped hands, you realize just how drying it is.  And often, water is the first ingredient listed, meaning it is the most plentiful ingredient, meaning your lotion bottle you paid big bucks (or small bucks) for is really, mostly, just water.

While many lotions also include healthy, natural ingredients like Aloe Vera, Grape Seed Extract, and Glycerine, they also contain preservatives and other artificial ingredients in order to prolong shelf life, stabilize ingredients, and encourage your skin to absorb more of their product. 

I'm kind of grossed out to find out what truly is in my lotion.  Are you?  Well, there's good news.  Lonely Windmill Farm now sells handmade lotion!  We wanted to create a product that would not only moisturize your skin, but would also be void of all that other yucky stuff that isn't good for your skin.  We wanted a moisturizer that contained healthy oils, but that wasn't too greasy or messy.  We didn't want to add water, but we wanted it to be easy to use.  And so we created our body lotion sticks.  


Our body lotion sticks contain only good stuff: Beeswax, Olive Oil, Shea Butter, Mango Butter, Coconut Oil, and Vitamin E.  Olive Oil and Coconut Oil help moisturize, nourish, and regenerate your skin because they naturally contain vitamins and minerals your skin needs to thrive.  Mango Butter is helpful in reducing wrinkles, while Shea Butter is a natural sunscreen that also helps soothe irritated skin.  Beeswax prevents your skin from losing moisture and protects it from the drying effect caused by wind, sun, and water.  We use minimally processed and unrefined products in our lotion sticks to ensure that you get the most skin-nourishing vitamins as possible.  While we love the goat milk in our soap, we didn't add it to our lotion because that would force us to add some of the yucky preservatives I listed.  When we add milk to our soap, it undergoes a chemical reaction which changes the goat milk and preserves it.  But there's no chemical reaction in our lotion sticks, so we left it out because we felt the negatives of the preservatives outweighed the positives of the goat milk.



Since we don't add water to our lotions, they are hard, like a large lip balm.  We pour them into a twist-up tube, so all you have to do is rub it on your skin.  One thing I have always hated about lotions is how greasy my hands get when I applied it.  With our lotion sticks, I never have to touch the lotion (unless my hands need some TLC!)--I apply it, and then I don't have to wash my hands before doing something else.  Also, you can put it in your purse or a bag without worry about whether it will leak all over everything.  They come in four varieties: Simply Sweet, Oatmeal, Milk and Honey, Black Raspberry, and Natural (unscented).  We now have them available on our website.  If you love our soap, we have a feeling you'll love our lotion.  



For more info on common skincare ingredients, check out these two sites: 


Sunday, July 7, 2013

Is it July already?

We have had a busy spring and beginning of summer here at Lonely Windmill.  I want to show you some of the highlights!

At the end of February and beginning of March we had 7 does (female goats) give birth to 11 kids!  We (of course) had more bucklings than doelings.  We have since sold 9 of our kids (which was quite a traumatic experience for our human children), and kept our favorite two, Majesty and Aria.  Here's our little ones:

Majesty and Aria exploring the barn

Lincoln brought the goats to the house!

Waiting for bottles

Skipper and Gilligan (named by the boys who love Gilligan's Island)

Daddy and Lincoln feeding Annie who was about to kid for the first time

Bonnie...our smallest baby goat, so we brought her to the house to keep warm

The highlight of our spring though, was the birth of our fourth son, Deacon Park Morford, on April 8, at 7:03 am in a very peaceful birth in our home.  My labor stalled out around 3:00 am, and we ended up sending our midwife home.  She had just stepped into her door at her home in Indianapolis when we had to call her right back!  He was my biggest baby weighing 9 lbs 2 oz!  We're pretty excited to have 4 boys, and we think he's quite a keeper.  We're also so thankful for our wonderful midwife for helping us deliver three of our sons.  She does such a great job, and I've learned so much from her over the past 3 years.  Here's a few pictures of Deacon.

 Our fourth precious gift from God within a hour of his birth


Daddy letting Canaan meet Deacon for the first time

The Morford boys: Lincoln, Gideon, Deacon, and Canaan

Some other spring highlights:

  • Lincoln Gene turned 3!  So hard to believe that my first baby born at home is already 3 years old!  
Happy 3rd birthday, partner!

  • We got a new (to us) vehicle.  We've been needing something that would hold all of our children and all of our soap stuff when we go to a craft show, and also we've been needing a car isn't so old it might fall apart at any second.  We got a Ford Excursion, and despite the gas it uses, we still love it.  It's big and it's green, so I was thinking we'd call it "The Big Green."  Some people refer to it as "The Beast," others like "The Green Machine."  Hopefully soon we'll find an affectionate name we can all agree on, because every time we tell the kids to get in the van/car/truck, they kindly remind us that the 'scursion is none of those things.
  • We've been making lots and lots of soap in preparation for our craft show season.  Sometimes I feel like I eat, sleep, and breathe bath and body products!  At least it keeps my house smelling good.  :)

Greg working hard at making soap
  • Also, we recently started potty training Canaan.  He's yet to go on the potty, but whenever he wets his pants,  he says, "Woohoo!  Potty!"  I'll take that as progress.  
  • Lastly, we kicked off our craft show season last week at the Fisher's Freedom Festival in Fishers, Indiana.  It rained most of Saturday, but it was a really neat festival, and we enjoyed meeting new people there.  We're excited for the rest of our upcoming shows. In a couple of days, I'll be posting some of our new products that we've unveiled and tell you about some new soaps we're adding. 
Selling soap with Daddy!

The boys all dressed up to celebrate the Fourth!

Lincoln showing you his happy face over getting his face painted (I promise, he really did like it!)


Here's a quick list of the rest of the shows we'll be at this summer and fall:

Rushville Steam Show--Rushville, IN  August 1-4
Archway Days--Centerville, IN August 24-26
Canal Days--Cambridge City, IN September 7, 8
Preble County Pork Festival--Eaton, OH  September 21, 22
Riley Festival--Greenfield, IN October 3-6
YWCA Christmas Village--Richmond, IN November 8,9

We might add one or two more.  We'll keep you posted.


Well, I think that wraps up the spring pretty well.  We are pretty excited for the next coming months.  It's been awesome watching our family, goat herd, and business grow in the past few months.